For more than a week on the news in all over media displays, her divorce news became a huge talking among people. It can't be helped since she is one of the most famous Korean actress and star which known all over the world.
As I read in a few news articles online, it was her husband who filed the divorce without her knowing it before hand. Then, some rumors started to wildly spread although it wasn't confirmed what would be the real reason behind their separation other than the statement of their agencies for unresolved differences of their characters.
I don't want to speculate further nor poking into their personal problems but speaking from my personal experience for having been in a marriage for more than a decade, I know for sure that marriage is not easy. The decision to unite or to separate, truly depends on the 2 person involved inside it. The one thing that enable a marriage to work is a high commitment, effort to maintain the communication and relationship and consider each other as a life time bestfriend, partner, lover and someone you can fully trust with almost everything. One thing for sure, don't forget to be happy. If it no longer makes you happy no matter how hard you've tried, then it is time to discuss and reconsider every possibility to save it or leave it. Once one of the couple, either the man or the woman, no longer want to keep everything that once he or she hold dear than it will be difficult.
In addition, for people around them, they will never know what really happened and there always be several sides of the story. To keep explaining towards people will not be a good choice nor keep silence without anything to say. Again, based on my personal experience, telling people is not the best choice for it might backfire at us one day and sometimes they simply want to feed their curiosity without really helping in finding the solution. I prefer to let them think however they want as long as it didn't affect my life in a destructive way.
I have been her avid fan since long time. I hope for her the best and she will find the rainbow of eternal happiness after this.
*insert pic: my failed attempt in drawing her a few years ago.
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